Think Back…..
- How does Satan attempt to defeat us? With Strategy and deceit through well laid plans and deliberate deception.
- What did Jesus call the devil? Father of Lies and of all that is false.
- Explain the phrase, “One of the devil’s strong points in patience.” He is willing to invest time to defeat us.
- What are strongholds? How can we overcome them? are what we are held in bondage due to a certain way of thinking. We can overcome them by knowing the Word of God.
- Why are prayer and praise effective weapons in overcoming strongholds? Praise and prayer both involve the Word. We praise God according to His Word and His goodness.
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John’s Side
John also has his own set of problems. Instead of taking his position as head of the family he lets his wife run everything. He feels defeated so he will retreat into TV and sports. John is hiding from his responsibility because he hates confrontation. He prefers to take a passive attitude.
Ephesians 5:25
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
John needs to take responsibility, and with responsibility comes authority. He should be firm with his wife — loving, but firm. He should reassure Mary that even though she was hurt as a child, as she releases herself to God through trusting HIM, she will gain confidence that not all men are like her father was.
John should be doing a lot of things, but like Mary, he also has “mindsets” that open the door for the devil to hold him captive. He was very abused in childhood. His domineering mother had a sharp tongue and frequently said hurtful things to him. Since he craved her approval he tried hard, but the harder he tried the more mistakes he made. At school being rejected my friends would just be an everyday child event, but because John already felt rejected by his mother it was devastating. John simply had no courage to be anything but quiet, shy and withdrawn.
What is the Answer.
Luke 4:18-19
18 “The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, 19 to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”
With John and Mary’s conflicting problems, it is not too hard to imagine what their home life is like. Strife is not warfare, but needs to be dealt with it because the devil loves it! If they continue to study God’s Word, the will know the truth, and acting on the truth will set them free. But they must each face the truth about themselves and their past as God reveals it to them. It is a painful process to face our faults and deal with them.
Our past may explain why we’re suffering, BUT we must not use it as an excuse to stay in bondage.
The Way Out
1 Corinthians 10:13
13 No temptation[a] has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted[b] beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted,[c] he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
We have seen through Mary & John that Satan takes our circumstance and builds strongholds in our lives, but thank God we have the weapons to tear them down. God doesnt abandon us and leave us helpless. God will not allow us to be tempted beyond what we can bear, but with every temptation He will also provide the way out, the escape.
God is on your side.
Questions
- Read Luke 4:18, 19. What has God promised concerning the poor, the captives, the blind, the oppressed and others?
- Read 1 Corinthians 10:13. What does this verse say about God and the temptations and trials we encounter while tearing down stronghold?
- If you are a Mary of a John; you probably realize you have these inner strongholds….can you look in your past and pinpoint were the originated?