Waiting for them to change?

 

As I am shampooing the carpet after a toddlers accident I was thinking to myself about a friend of mine who was complaining about her husband not changing. How she thought he would grow out of these actions. Got me to thinking….. when we get married do we overlook the stuff that annoys us and think of I can change that… I can train him… once we have kids he will settle down……. Would we still get married knowing for certain that this is how they would be for the rest of our marriage??